I'm only 2 years out on my loss but thanks to posts like this and resources like Genspect and PITT and SEGM and GDSN, I have been able to get myself moved to the right end of the Denton Ambiguous Loss curve and but for the occasional setback, I'm staying here and planning to live out the rest of my life. Who knows, maybe I'll get to watch this whole dystopian nightmare curl up and die. I hope so. And I hope all the Rachel Levine's and Martine Rothblatts and Pritzkers go with it.
I hope the lawsuits involving 1000 families in the UK, along with Ritchie Herron, an articulate detransitioned man, as well as lawsuits in the States by Camile Kieffer and Chloe Cole, will cause major flaking around the edges. I imagine that cross-sex ideating men like my ex-husband are squirming, as they were told they were "so rare." The social contagion of it will surface.
Meanwhile, a spicebush butterfly in the garden last summer, as a symbol of hope:
I'm only 2 years out on my loss but thanks to posts like this and resources like Genspect and PITT and SEGM and GDSN, I have been able to get myself moved to the right end of the Denton Ambiguous Loss curve and but for the occasional setback, I'm staying here and planning to live out the rest of my life. Who knows, maybe I'll get to watch this whole dystopian nightmare curl up and die. I hope so. And I hope all the Rachel Levine's and Martine Rothblatts and Pritzkers go with it.
I hope the lawsuits involving 1000 families in the UK, along with Ritchie Herron, an articulate detransitioned man, as well as lawsuits in the States by Camile Kieffer and Chloe Cole, will cause major flaking around the edges. I imagine that cross-sex ideating men like my ex-husband are squirming, as they were told they were "so rare." The social contagion of it will surface.
Meanwhile, a spicebush butterfly in the garden last summer, as a symbol of hope:
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/trby3MFuaQc