I think the dads tend to bury their heads in the sand. I know my husband thinks it’s nonsense, will say so in private to me, but doesn’t like to talk too much about it. And he’s not the sort of guy to write a substack on ANYTHING, let alone a controversial topic that will draw lots of criticism, could alienate our daughter if she found out about it, and that he really doesn’t want to spend time thinking about because it makes him feel angry, uncomfortable, and helpless. I am glad you’re here writing but I think many of the dads are like my husband.
I think the dads tend to bury their heads in the sand. I know my husband thinks it’s nonsense, will say so in private to me, but doesn’t like to talk too much about it. And he’s not the sort of guy to write a substack on ANYTHING, let alone a controversial topic that will draw lots of criticism, could alienate our daughter if she found out about it, and that he really doesn’t want to spend time thinking about because it makes him feel angry, uncomfortable, and helpless. I am glad you’re here writing but I think many of the dads are like my husband.
Thanks for what you do. I wish there were more dads that wrote about it too. I wish there were more gay men like me who would speak up. But it seems like men just have their heads in the sand. Here's a link to my latest: https://open.substack.com/pub/flashinggreen/p/born-at-the-right-time?r=2261q&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web