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Ute Heggen's avatar

As always, great images! I feel also, that my sons have been on the wrong end of a tuba or something, since about 2015. When they were young, and their father told them lies about who he was, they told me they knew it was lies. Now they say, "Everyone has their own truth." I'd say, "Except your mother."

I will post the links to you in my new Youtube channel, Ute Heggen

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Denton's avatar

Thanks Ute, I'll look forward to that

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MamaBearProud's avatar

"Everyone has their own truth"? Hmmm....

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Ute Heggen's avatar

This is what my adult son told me after starting with a Denver therapist who taught him that he doesn't need to have compassion for what I went through with his father (who says he's "Mom" too) The narrative that everything painful about our divorce and how their father's cross-dressing affected them has been reframed by the current narrative of individual "truth." I imagine the house of cards will drop one by one, not as fast as we think it should, and one day my sons will find themselves knocking on my door. The damage the cross-sex ideology imposes on society is incalculable.

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MamaBearProud's avatar

It would be totally understandable if you said you were taking some time away during the holidays. I keep thinking I need to quit reading about the gender crap until next year for some sanity, but I keep hoping, hoping there will be some huge blow in the gender cult. Having an estranged kid makes the holidays so much more lonely, painful and sad. This is our second year -- was hoping by now we'd at least hear from him. Not only is he disassociated from his body, but his parents and greater family too. Sad times. Much peace to you.

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Denton's avatar

Love, peace and strength to you too over the holiday period and for always MamaBear. Christmas always used to be a special time for us, when our young ones returned from their exciting lives away from home, when my daughter and I would dress the Christmas tree together while playing silly Xmas songs. It was something very special between us, just the two of us, dad and daughter, being kids all over again. Christmas time can be a terrible time for parents estranged by their sons and daughters. I'll be making a post about this soon, and lighting a candle for every family suffering trans estrangement, or the "endless bereavement" that is experienced. Thinking of you x

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Ute Heggen's avatar

Here's a link to me and Exulansic wrapping up a chat about the Fallacies of Cross-Dressing on Ute Heggen channel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGiOQMOhUxA

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