Posie and the Pink Elifantasist ~ Part One
A modern-day dystopian fairytale of a psychotic epidemic where The Division is greater than ever
What is it with these mob men and their handmaiden enablers?
What is blocking lefty men from seeing the truth? Are they stuck in their own prison of principles? Like the kids, stuck inside their own gender insanity?
Billy Bragg has entered the cult with the least resistance I think I’ve ever seen, meek as a lamb, hurling nazi slurs and currying favour with other “what’s the point?” left wing-approved feminists and campaigners who seem to spend all their time arguing for a living or arguing against the wishes of ordinary women who want to see peace between left and right on a single issue.
Events last weekend in New Zealand showed up exactly what comes into the light when a cult sucks you in, because misogyny and shutting up women is SO mainstream it’s the new normal. It’s too close to us - we can’t see it - like a fish unaware of the water in which it swims - only aware of its absence once removed from the environment that permits its own life.
And so it is with cults. Those who are IN cults, don’t know they are IN a cult because all they can see, all they really care about is their own blinkered righteousness, fashioned and honed and filtered by life algorithms and biases, activists, political principles, books, to shape a kind of bolstered “self-identity” of themselves - like the “split” personality disorder of NPD or BPD where anyone “on your side” is inherently good, and anyone holding a slightly different view (let alone an opposing view) is obviously evil. And here again, like a personality disorder, they show an exaggerated form of “emotional disregulation”, when they are called out, shown to be intolerant, their ignorance exposed and their male pride damaged. Former champions of free speech turn into NoDebaters - every bit as damaging to the pushback as social indifference, contagion, group think, BeKind blindness, or soup throwing.
Kellie-Jay Keen’s New Zealand visit was the biggest proof yet, that a cult mob, drunk on testerical rage and religious righteousness, will turn aggressively and violently against a heretical enemy - a woman - against someone challenging dogma, wanting womens’ voices heard, and against the authoritarianism and state-sanctioned child abuse of “affirming care” and sex denial. Wrong think will be punished, and the perpetrator will be terrorised and abused for the crime. Kellie-Jay must be shut up at all costs. How dare she prove, single-handedly by her very presence alone, the very same point she was there to prove in the first place; that women need the right to their own spaces where men should not encroach their boundaries. How amazing that the mob should comply so readily to prove her point.
They spat, kicked, punched, and hurled soup, in a shaming ceremony; crushing every boundary imaginable as the mob closed in on her. It was a modern-day tarring & feathering, a dark and dangerous escalation of the medieval witch hunt of J K Rowling. Only this time, their victim was trapped inside a very physical space and contained.
We’ve become so disconnected from each other, we can’t even recognise the terror and the trauma in her face, as she was so ineffectually ushered away - with only a handful of stewards or those offering protection around her - to a police car ready to flee the scene, and mercifully she was still in one piece. Where were the police officers tasked with protecting her from the mob? On the edge of it all? Or nowhere at all? State police enabling the kind of culture that authoritarians love to depict as being “OF the people, FOR the people”. Government and law enforcement bound tightly together no doubt.
This is why I bang on endlessly about cults, and the ideological cult that adherents to gender ideology and sex denialism become a part of. Like a lot of other things, the word Cult has been neutered, its descriptive power has been stolen and squashed, like so many other words when queer theorists decide that something can be conceptually plasticised to rearrange meaning using the bastardisation of language. So the word becomes ubiquitous, is turned against us, the clarity of its meaning becomes milky so that it encompasses more uses and users. The word Cult no longer has the power it once held because it’s been diluted with overuse.
But it’s still a real word, with a very real meaning.
I waited a few days to see how this event would shake down across social media and mainstream media reporting. I’m glad I did. I wanted to see what might be said from all sides, and by whom, once the heat had subsided and a little time had passed. The screenshots attached are the results of my media-watch, and show most closely the kind of behaviour and activity that cults exercise both on a personal level as individuals within a group, and how this plays out collectively AS a group.
The media in Australia and New Zealand overwhelmingly portrayed her as a dangerous woman, whipped up outrage, claimed she was using secret Nazi hand signals when she was playing with the zipper on her top. An elderly woman was assaulted, her eye socket fractured. The entire crowd encircled Kelly-Jay’s exit from the scene, hurling abuse. I watched the live stream. And we’re not supposed to acknowledge that this was a violent, abusive hate mob full of “progressives”? That misogyny isn’t at the very heart of this? War is Peace, and Peace is War, and all the rest of Orwells Canon.
Our daughter walked over hot coals to join this cult - secretly, stealthily, behind our backs. Billy Bragg just long-jumped into the far end of this fire pit without injury, and it cost him nothing. There’s no left wing/right wing about this anymore, gender ideology has blown it all to smithereens. It affects everybody because men are driving this thing, this “energetic”, this “movement”, but lefties remain stubbornly deaf, dumb and blind. And it suits the leftie men for trans-identified men to say they are fearful of being erased, marginalised, discriminated, and to seek their validation and affirmation in the sacrificed bodies of the young who have been indoctrinated and damaged in service to the elder mens narcissism, sexual fetishes and misogyny. In case you hadn’t noticed Billy, men are the only beneficiaries of gender ideology.
(Check out my Part 2 and the elevation and celebration of two men in particular. Their elevation says everything you need to know about this “movement”)
Our daughter was groomed and indoctrinated to the point of radicalisation by trans-identified males and other foot soldiers of the Gender Stasi that Billy Bragg thinks he’s in some kind of progressive alliance with. They don’t give two hoots about his political views, only that he’s a Big Name on Their Side, and always will be - so long as he sticks to the TWAW line. Many men who support gender ideology become vainglorious with the attention they get and mistake this for simply being a useful tool. How easily they are played.
Any “notable” male who supports the dangerous dross of gender ideology is an insult to our lives, our daughter, and what happened to us - and an insult to every father, mother, sibling, parent affected by trans radicalisation and estrangement. We’re silenced, thanks to her brittle mental health and our fear of her further deterioration or further cementation that could powerfully and negatively affect many people in her constellation. If I called out and publicly identified the individuals who abused our only daughter, it could be catastrophic. How would anyone survive having their entire identity implode into a thousand lies before their cheering squad of enablers and love bombers?
Imagine having to live with that Billy. Imagine your heart being broken into a thousand pieces every day you have to live under this spell, this endless limbo. A radicalised and estranged daughter who has turned herself into a cruel despot, thanks to gender ideology and those who poisoned her beautiful nature with it. Imagine not being able to say that, because people won’t believe you. Imagine still loving her and trying to reach her while simultaneously being psychically destroyed by your own child. What would you do Billy? If your late-teenage daughter wanted to have her breasts amputated, take testosterone, become infertile with multiple health risks, and all the while be encouraged to erase her own parents from her life? And then write about celebrating their erasure from her life in the chapter of a book?
You’d try and help wouldn’t you? Right from the start. Of course you would, just like we did. You might try and encourage her to talk more, to find out more, just like we did. You might talk to trans people, just like we did, You might try and understand why she hated her body so much. You might do all these things. We found some of the people she had talked to, understood their mindset, their values, attitudes and beliefs. We got to know the people who influenced them, who the key figures in this “movement” are; all the time looking for something positive to say or report to each other; a good role model perhaps, or a humane solution for her to escape this gender prison she had locked herself inside. But there was none, She’s still there, locked in her own prison thinking she’s free or authentic, or a man who is also mysteriously an oppressed orphan fae.
If it happened to you Billy, you’d be where we are now. I’m just like you, I grew up listening to your music, loved your politics and your outspokenness. I’m just an ordinary bloke, a left-leaning libertarian, married father of two. But when other lefty male media darlings like Owen Jones intone others to listen to the parents of trans children, I literally sink to my knees in despair. They mean listen to the screened, approved parents at Mermaids of course. The parents who are manipulated, coerced, gaslighted and controlled and bullied by their own children and their clinicians and activists - because that’s how it all works. That’s how the so-called trans kids were groomed and socialised and suffered “undue influence” into demanding pronouns, breast binders, non-binary haircuts, and step by step, stealthily across the hot coals they tread, making their way towards the adults like drugged-up zombies, into the arms of the elders that need the fresh blood of affirmation and validation. And son it continues.
Try listening to the parents of PITT, forget what you think (or what they declare) their politics to be. Listen to what they’re saying about the way their children were groomed, about the contagion, about safeguarding breaches in schools, about the single issue of gender transition. Put aside your narrow political biases. I have to forget how much I hate hearing the word “Mom” from Americans I so easily and readily stereotype as being right-wing, god-fearing and evangelical. Ignore all that homespun wholesome ApplePie, trad family, Christiian stuff. It really grates on me too, believe me. Hell, I’m gonna lose subscribers now! I recognise my own cultural prejudices and filters.
With a lack of any British grit, the lefties have helped force-team parents like us into a fake and fanciful demographic that includes Trump supporters, “unsupportive parents” of trans kids, rightwing bigots, Christian Fundamentalists and, yes, Nazis. At a time when “Genocide” and “Vengeance” are back in common SM usage, you just go and paint a huge target on our backs.
Then listen to the women who are telling you that those Neo-nazis turning up in Melbourne were NOTHING to do with Kellie-Jay and her presence there. Even the waverers in my networks know this. They decided to show up, to create division and conflict. That’s what they love to do. Better instead, to take a humanist view of the situation and see the artificial constructs of left and right politics for how ineffectual they currently are, how those precious principles do absolutely nothing for parents in our position, except create a target for unhinged social justice warriors and kranks.
Keep your political identity and principles intact, but declare yourself an Independent (thinker) on this ONE issue.
When you suffer nearly 5 years of psychic cruelty at the hands of a radicalised trans-identified daughter you really get to understand how it works - the vulnerable predisposition, the indoctrination and grooming, the “split” self and the projection, the fact that their entire identity is created on the back of your own erasure as “biological” parents. It’s impossible for me to NOT see the mob attack in New Zealand for what it really was - a collective gathering of targeted testosterone and misogyny with the BeKInd handmaidens all somehow gaslit into collusion with the same psychic fantasy. The same psychic fantasy that paints J K Rowling as a witch. The same psychic fantasy that enables Pink News to create a story about Helen Joyce wishing to destroy all trans people, and for you to believe it.
The cruelty of the individual mirrors and maps exactly onto the group behaviour. What KJK did was expose it. Lefty or righty, THAT should be supported. In this particular instance, while the lefties were too busy hand-wringing and worrying about which constituencies they could not afford to offend, how to protect their academic careers, who they had to keep on side, and so on, fear takes over. And so a brave women steps in and simply acts with powerful intent, at great personal cost, by sharing her presence with the world, and does what the lefties are too petrified to do unless it’s cloaked in the narrow politics of “approved” political alliances. Transgenderism is far bigger than that narrow prism, it’s an attempt to reshape humanity for dark and dangerous male agendas. Viewing this through a simplistic binary of political poles is just plain puny.
I’m in an oppressed minority of ONE it seems - the only dad I can think of trying to help prevent what’s happened to us, to affect others. Where’s my support? Where’s the brotherhood? Your principles stand in the way of my hope Billy. You go about your activism with a scold’s bridle. There is no “trans community”. It’s all about men.
Most men of any political persuasion will never get it, but lefty men have been so easily played by the cult, by their own parading as underdog champions to the marginalised, and all round virtuous socialist good egg, while our lives are the miserable, living proof that everyone Billy Bragg tries to bat away - about his nazi witch hunt, are right to show their anger at his cowardice.
Billy you are not on the right side of history. All Kellie-Jay ever did in Aukland, was to drag out the wretched truth, kicking and screaming, into the light for us to see.
Today is my younger son's 32nd birthday. I know there is no point in trying to call him and that he won't call me. Those calls used to be me regaling him with my 5 hour labor, how it was so fast, no doctor or midwife had time to suggest pain remedies. After his birth, his father was oddly quiet and subdued. I later learned, after my discovery of his cross-dressing diaries, that he already had a secret, intrigue-filled life, pretending to be a woman. 6 months later, I almost died of pneumonia. Miraculously my son returned to breastfeeding after I recovered. I'd had dangerously high fevers, but took care of myself with little help from hubby. A year later, the three diaries emerged from their Pandora's Box. I can't decide whether to post on Ute Heggen YT channel about this day, or find a way to private rituals. Due to my recent refusal to use female pronouns for the father of my sons, my sons have "gone no contact." If there are printable photos of "Days of Vengeance after this weekend (Washington DC) I will make them into postcards to send to their addresses. The daffodils are starting to bloom, and I turn my thoughts elsewhere. We are different categories of grieving parents, Denton.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vH6ur07izcg